Matthew Gates 3m 769 #lookingforlove
The views of this article are the perspective of the author and may not be reflective of Confessions of the Professions.
Love in all the Wrong Places
This article can work for both men and women, but will focus on getting over a woman.
Looking to get over a girl? Think about her flaws. Think about the little things she did that you found annoying. Think about the bigger things that really caused you to get into arguments and made you question your relationship. See her for who she truly is, not who you want her to be for you. She cancels appointments, makes mistakes, can never be satisfied no matter what, and when you think about it, the happiness she gives you is only temporary, and it always left you wondering what was missing in your relationship. Is this the girl you really want? If you think you are going to get jealous over her or upset by what she does, than do not even bother with her. Get her out of your mind completely.
There are billions of women on the planet. Do you know how many that is? Okay, so narrowing it down to something that you like, you probably still have at least 100,000 to 1 million or so girls to find the one you like and the one that likes you. You have quite a few chances in your lifetime. Until then, stop meeting stupid people who you pretend are a good match for you and focus on yourself.
Focus on your intelligence. Your strengths. Your body. Your mind. Everything you need to feel better about yourself, start doing it and making it happen. Eat healthy. Work out. Read. Develop opinions and ideas. Keep reading. Keep knowing. Keep understanding. Keep developing wisdom!
Eventually, you will find the woman who you love: who you love to make happy and makes you happy, who you love to eat with or tell jokes to who you get along with just by being yourself, or laugh with or even have a conversation with, and especially, who you love to have sex with and who loves to have sex with you.
You will thank yourself that you learned this hard lesson. Be yourself. Have confidence. Trust in life. Trust in yourself. This Earth is a small speck in the universe. There are zillions of stars in the sky. There are trillions of Solar Systems ranging at trillions of miles. These things are huge.
What created them? How are they so huge? What do we mean? There are so many questions and answers. But you will never be satisfied with knowing the answer. Anyways, the point is, there are trillions of stars in the sky, and we are stuck on this planet, so live on it and find someone to live with and love for the rest of your life and who loves you and can live with you too.
Do yourself a favor: Stop looking and being so serious.
Have fun with life. Be yourself. Find someone you can tolerate for long periods of time in your life. Love them for who they are. You will find love this way: the way when you’re really not looking. You only get one life. Who knows whats beyond. We can pretend to make up stories, but accept it for what it really is: We don’t know.
Most of all. Stop being afraid of girls. Learn to become comfortable around girls. Learn to become comfortable with all girls. Then, learn to become uncomfortable around the girls that make you feel uncomfortable. After you do this, you will soon begin attracting ones you don’t feel uncomfortable around. You will you come across the ones you want to be around and the ones that want to be around you. And then, you will find love.
Most people make the big mistake: They are always looking for the one person they love rather than the people who love them. That is not how usually happens, but in fact you have to “look for the one you love” and they have to be “looking for you.” By quotes.. I refer to the reference of those people who always say, “Love is best found when you’re not looking.” Upon a match, there can be found this thing called love. Of course, you will recognize none of these things that happen to you, because that is what love might make you do.
Stop looking. Be yourself. Know yourself. Be confident around yourself and girls. She will love you for you and want to do all sorts of crazy exciting things to you.
Good luck. It’s not an easy journey to find the one who loves you and the one you love.
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